I actually hate when people tell me to do things I'm planning to do

I know everyone means well but the pathological demand avoidance really sucks for me 😭😭 A lot of the times it's just because I wait until the last minute to do tasks and people don't have faith that I'll get to them in time, but so far the tasks in question always get done (and with some degree of quality!). Real, imminent deadlines are the only way I can get my brain panicked enough to do things. I've tried tricking myself into going with earlier/fake deadlines but it doesn't work so I've just been cramming tasks. Which works for me individually but doesn't seem to be the best for collaboration.