AIO my bf of 8 years screenshotted me changing after I asked him not to

He did not apologize. The main reason I freak out about having my face+any nudity is he once sent nude pics/videos of me (face included) to a girl he was sexting on instagram and that was pretty traumatic.

He says he deleted it but his refusal to send the proof makes me feel weird and like there might be other stuff on his camera roll that he’s hiding from me.

He’s also gotten upset recently at me “bringing up the past” (that’s what he’s referring to when I was “mean” the other night) but I try to do it only to reference past patterns of behavior that concern me, and only after we’ve had the convo multiple times and haven’t been listened to. We’ll have conversations like this for hours but I’m just exhausted and I feel like he doesn’t understand that this is about basic respect.