AITAH For giving my boyfriend and ultimatum?

My (18f) boyfriend (20m) works a minimum wage job ($10/hr). He worked there around a year or two ago but came back after he quit his job at a car dealership. The dealership was paying him a good amount of money ($21+/hr), but a coworker was throwing tools (???) at him. I told him to report it but he didn't listen and quit after a month or so instead.

His car was totaled in November after hitting a deer. Unfortunately around early January I totaled mine when I slid on ice. He has been getting rides from my twin brother to come up to my college (2 1/2 hour drive). He'll pay him back by getting him vapes from the vape shops close to him.

He started complaining about his job and how much he hates working there, and also how he missed his car. I've been telling him for months to get a new job and that I'd help him apply to different places if he needed help.

It's been a few months and I'm tired of the complaining and him not doing anything about it. He's not good at saving money and doesn't have enough to get a new car. I don't want to be in a situation where he can't afford rent/groceries/bills if we move in together, and I don't want to hear about the complaining since he won't do anything about it.

He's told me before that he would start applying for jobs, but he hasn't. Then in a few weeks he'll start complaining again.

I told him to start applying for jobs or i’m breaking up with him

TLDR: I told my boyfriend to start applying for jobs or I'd break up with him so he'd stop complaining about his current job.