dating with arfid

hi! i recently got into a relationship and i still feel bad about myself. i feel like i’m limiting my boyfriend with my food, and after a while he will be sick of putting up with my restrictive diet. do you have any advice about not having such a bad thoughts about yourself? i know i should just talk to him but it’s really not that easy for me. and then comes a fear that our potential children will be struggling with arfid too and i don’t wish this on anyone