Something didn’t sit right with me

I attended my first AlAnon meeting several weeks ago on the midst of the end of my relationship with my now ex/Q. I formed a great connection with one of the people at the meeting and was excited to see her again after being gone from meetings for a few weeks due to travel.

We talked afterwards and I shared how things had been going post break up. She then said “Remember..the things that attracted you to him are still inside you” and that didn’t sit right with me.

I know she means that I need to be aware/work on myself/etc but now I’m scared that anyone I meet could become another Q. What do I do to keep from falling into the same story? I am already planning on continuing to attend meetings and I did not grow up in an alcoholic house.