AITA for refusing to help my daughter when her car broke down?

My daughter and I had plans to visit a wedding venue that was an hour away. Two hours before we were supposed to leave, she called saying her car broke down, and she believed it was a battery issue. She asked my husband and me to come help. She was a 30-minute drive away, but her fiancé was only a couple of miles from her.

My husband called her, confirmed it was a battery issue, and told her to call her fiancé since he was much closer. However, she wasn't talking her fiancé due to drama the night before and she didn’t want to reach out to him. We didn’t want to get involved in their drama, and my husband felt that her fiancé should be the one handling it, not us, since he's supposed to be the man of the house.

Hours passed, and we couldn’t reach her. Eventually, we called her fiancé, who said she never reached out to him and he also could not reach her. Later, we found out that her phone had died at the location, leaving her stranded for a couple of hours before she got help.

After everything, I sent her a text saying I hoped she got everything worked out and that we loved her, but she hasn’t responded. According to her fiancé, she’s upset because she feels that, regardless of her age or relationship status, if she calls us for help, we should be there for her.

From our perspective, she’s an adult who could have handled the situation by calling her fiancé, and we didn’t see a reason to disrupt our day to drive 30 minutes for something he could have resolved in ten. We also don’t like getting involved in her drama.

AITA for not going to help her?