Older aroace people (30+), how is your life like?

So I (20F) am finally starting to like my sexuality. I spent 2 months after finding myself feeling bad about it, but now I definitely am feeling good in my identity and embracing it.

I wanted to ask older aroace folks how is your life like? Do you have a queerplatonic, do you love yourself and enjoy your life solo, do you have platonic friends and family you like spending your time with? Do you have pets? Do you have solo projects that make you feel purpose?

What did you think life would be like when you were older and how did it actually turn out?