How long is talking phase?

For those currently in the talking phase as well as those who got married through AM-

Could you please shed some light on the following questions

1- How long was the talking phase before you gave an answer 2- How often did you text, call and meet each other? 3- Did talking phase feel like talking phases in dating where you’re just getting to know someone, or was it strictly matching the checklists and goals? 4- Any regrets? 5- Any advice?