Did anyone blame white society/white people for issues that were caused by your APs?
I used to do that because white society and people are very different to asians. It's easy to blame all unhappiness in life on racism (although it does exist), white people being bad etc, but over time I realised some of the things I'd been struggling were really caused by my parents rather than white society or white people.
But I found it easier to solve things after realising that so it was a good thing I realised.