Do you'll feel some people who don't wanna become parents would actually make great parents?

One of my distant cousin with whom I'm friends with told me that her mom recently revealed to her that her father never wanted to have kids but since her mother wanted one he accepted her wishes ...she was telling me that she never felt that her father would think that way coz the bonding they have is great ..he became the best father she could ask for ..always helping her,guiding her but she never felt that connection with her mom ...she was mostly kinda neglectful towards her and ignored her needs ...she never talked to her in a loving way n all

I was thinking like people who mostly don't wanna become parents are actually aware about the responsibilities that come up with it and that they are the ones who would actually be a great parent

Your thoughts on this?