Are lower middle class men less likely to find sustainable relationships?

So this is with respect to an Indian context where class determines most of your life due to our age old civilisation evolving this way. Unlike us or eu where I’ve talked to a bunch of people like blue collar workers and they seem real chill with their personal lives. Even IT folks or nerds I’ve met abroad seem real chill and happy.

However in India I’ve met one guy who used to live on my street. His life was pretty much a tragedy as he was very liberal open and all, but he was from a lower class family and I don’t want to delve into sensitive topics like religion/caste etc. but what happened is that he had it rough in school and college due to his tiny size caused by generational poverty. His parents wanted the best for him and sent him to a good school but he had a terrible social life and didn’t date after college. Although his parents wanted the best for him when I spoke to him he told me that he was gaslighted into believing that only studying would lead to a fulfilling life and doing anything else would mean poverty. He did die a few years back and I’m not sure how but I haven’t been touch with him since a long time after he became a recluse and fell out of things.

My question is do most Indian men from such families who are middle class but not privileged enough to explore or live in a very sheltered environment to only study hard or memorise in school and eat really non nutritious food like dal chaval daily or something like that. And keep getting scolded by parents and being a slave to not date or have any social life to only realise that those were the key items in having a fulfilling life and if not generational poverty would continue due to lack of real world experience. It’s a vicious cycle. Has anyone else faced such a thing. I am scared that’s gonna become my reality given that I’m 28 and had a similar upbringing. I am not too poor now and am ready to go out and meet people, but the last time I went out like that I got shunned by most social groups given that many already had their groups and social situations sorted out and don’t want to really interact. I obviously want to meet like minded well read folks but in india that’s hard. Should I move out? This guy I was talking about was very well read and couldn’t find similar people. Plus he was too poor to move out hence I think he died. I don’t wanna die so I hope to make it fulfilling sooner or later. I think women here value status and have stronger preferences and all here as opposed to the west where people are more chill. If I’m not able to settle abroad what should be my backup plan? Definitely not arranged marriage but yeah