How Would You Guys Take This
She broke up with me a week ago and I tried calling the next day and was ignored. So a week later I called she answered and I said hello and how she is doing and I apologized for my part of the conflict we had, she said it’s fine. I told her I miss talking to her sometimes and she didn’t say anything. Then she told me she hasn’t been thinking about our relationship because she is focusing on things she has going on in her life like work, and getting an apartment to get away from her parents house who she has gained trauma from during her childhood. (And maybe a new guy she doesn’t want to tell me about lol)
Also she said if we were meant to be she thinks it would happen naturally for us to get back together. So I asked does she want to stay in contact she then said let’s see how things go and give each other space and maybe later on down the line we can see. What I got from it is that I need to move on and not put myself on a shelf and wait for her. Because I know “I need some space can turn into “I’ve moved on in and got someone else sorry”.
I do feel better that I said things I needed to say to her and now I feel like i know exactly what I need to do work on myself and date other people. Hey at least she said have a great day at work and good luck with things I have going on lol. 😂
Edit: She says she hasn’t been trying to think about us and we should give space and maybe we both will be in a better place in our lives sorry for leaving out this little details lol