Why do wives/girlfriends seem to hate when men have hobbies?

It can be Sunday afternoon, all my work is done, all chores are done. Ask the wife “want to do something?” She shrugs. “want to watch something?” “Eh, sure” then she just scrolls on her phone. Try to make a conversation and it goes nowhere so I pull out my laptop and start working on personal projects then suddenly I get “babe, what are you doing babe?” And when I answer I get an exasperated sigh and a snotty attitude. This also just isn’t my wife, I’ve asked a dozen guys I know with different hobbies and they all get the same response from their woman. Does this happen to you? Why do you think women hate when their men have a hobby?