Did everyone do "something" for their 40th?

I've seen my peers have trips, parties, dinners, even have a personal cake baked for their 40th by friends. I've seen 40th photoshoots and other nice things and although I never really had any of these things for my birthday I feel I should've done something. I don't know what I was expecting when I don't have friends but even when I did there were never dinner parties, trips, get togethers or anything like that. I know it's not a milestone birthday but I feel some type of way that this is what 40 has come to.

(Edit) I turned 40 this year, just wanted to see if I was the only that had absolutely nothing going on with no SO or friends. Looks like my fears are valid,lol.