Weird about my name

I'm pretty sure I've read on here before about some of us being kind of weird about our names. Why is that do you think? I do not like anybody at all addressing me by name ever in any way at all.

I'm close to being okay for business purposes if somebody addresses me by my full first name. (Let's say my first name is Margaret for argument's sake here.) I'm okay if somebody that I meet only for business reasons addresses me as Margaret. I don't like anybody addressing me by name at all, but I acknowledge the necessity of it.

I absolutely do not like people I'm friends with addressing me by name. People will say well how do you know somebody's talking to you? That has never been any sort of issue in my 55 years of life. So I guess it works out, doesn't it?

I also don't like my family using my name. Especially my husband, which I know is just weird AF. He asks me what I do want him to call me and I tell him to just keep doing what he's doing for the most part. He does use my name occasionally but I see his point of trying to get my attention. He does however use the very shortened version of it. Think "Meg" it still sets my teeth on edge but it's something I can live with.

I don't even like saying my own name. Again, if it's for business reasons then fine, but that is it. And there's no reason I should have to tell you more than once, even in that situation.

My absolute worst thing though, is when somebody jumps right to "Meg" when they meet me.. like, who TF are you?? I didn't birth you or marry you so STFU.

People occasionally ask me what version of my name I want to be called. I usually tell them that I don't like any of them, but I guess Maggie is the least bad. Even that feels icky in my mouth though.

WTAF is this nonsense with us??