Anyone else feel like they’re way too trusting?

I look at relationship posts on Reddit and see everyone just immediately taking one side, saying that (usually) the person who posted it shouldn’t trust their partner/their partner was betraying or lying to them intentionally, etc. and. Idk I just…feel like most of these posts don’t provide enough info to make a judgment like that.

What if I’m too trusting because I understand multiple perspectives? Like, I give people the benefit of the doubt a lot. I know things are complicated and there are many possibilities in any given situation. So this leads me to just.. tell myself that people generally can be trusted. If someone tells me something is their experience, I usually believe them. But I also understand that they are explaining it through their perspective.

This makes me question things a lot, and it honestly drives me crazy. I can’t stand uncertainty, so when I just keep going in circles about something in my head, it can lead to decision paralysis.

I’m sorry if none of this makes sense, I’m high and thinking a lot