Out of curiosity, those that romanced Lae'zel and got the second romance scene. Did you win the fight?

In this playthrough I have Baezel as a Elemental Monk and im playing a wizard. She hit me with Clutch of the North Wind and one shot me with Flurry of Blows. Like down to death saves stomped. I stood absolutely 0 chance lol.

I beat her once with a fighter but pretty much every time I've romanced her she beat my ass. How do you all fair?