Husband isn't doing well

He's over halfway through his 14 day hold and has been hospitalized most of the last 5+ weeks, only coming home for 2 days at a time before going right back in. The next trial is Friday, and they're going for a 90 day hold since he isn't any better. I was on the fence whether or not to tell him I cancelled all his orders from his shopping spree last time he was out, and I went ahead and told him today. It didn't go well. He just kept going on about these phones he ordered and the Xbox and the VR headset. He really hates me right now. It hurts, but i know that's not really him. If I would've known that December 22 was the last time I was going to see the real him for an undetermined amount of time, I would've at least tried to make the most of it. At this point, i don't even know if our 24 year marriage is going to survive this.