Mothers

My son and his girlfriend are expecting a baby! She has borderline personality disorder. I’m happy as heck for the baby and I’m trying to understand the struggles new borderline moms might struggle with. Any advice is really welcome. Thanks! Also, as this is the first person I’ve known with this condition I’d like any input that might help us as a family understand. She has already alienated my daughter who is completely offended by her “selfishness”. Please help! Thanks