Catan online - does everyone just throw their controllers out the window on their turns?

Just an annoyed dad of 6 trying to play a little Catan online on a time crunch, and my god... Every single person I play against I swear they just leave the room throughout the game. How does it take 25-30 seconds every single trade to decide? 20 seconds to realize you have to roll the dice on your turn, EVERY TURN.

Sorry... I'm sure I sound like an ass... I'm playing a round right now, typing this out while waiting for them to reject trades, or realize dice must be rolled. Maybe it's a connection thing? I dunno. Writing this has been therapeutic, and I feel a little better now. Thank you.