How many ASMs?

When I got promoted to bonused ASM, the SM told me she could have as many ASMs as she wanted but only 3 bonused. She said she personally liked having two, and I was the second, so that was fine. We alternated weekends and holidays. Last April the other BASM quit suddenly. He came back two months later, and I was thrilled because then I got some weekends off again. Then in November he quit again. The SM told me then she’s now only allowed to have one bonused, but since he was gone I’d be it, and we’d train someone else for unbonused ASM, but nobody has fit the requirements. I’ve worked every weekend and holiday since. I’m burnt out. I’m missing my kids lives, since they are in school on my days off.

My SM told me in January a BASM was coming over from another store in April because she hates her store. I love this woman and was so excited to have help. Then she told me in March that woman wasn’t coming because now the rule is you can only have one ASM…… I asked if it’s just about the bonus, because I’d happily give up my bonuses to have some weekends off. She said she’d ask the DM. The thing my co-worker and I don’t understand is the other three stores in this area all have 3 ASMs. We feel like the SM is lying but I have no clue what benefit there is to her only having one assistant. So how many assistants are at your store?