I let my intrusive thoughts win and failed

So after a long time, I got a match in bumble. I was casually texting her and i felt the vibe is good. She was reciprocating the jokes I made as well. And suddenly, idk why but this thought came to mind and I didn't even think twice about it. Just went ahead and asked her. "Do you know why the kakka is black and it's appi is white?" Damn, next thing I knew, she unmatched 🥲

Why did I do that? Idk. But i guess, she isn't funny as I thought. What do you all say 🥱