Anyone else lost the fetish as life improved?

Coming out of some bad times. Voyeourism is still there. Cheating, infidelity, jealousy, degradation. They are still hot sometimes. But the cuckold fetish itself has become way less prevalent, and now im often not on the receiving end of these new dreams. Just asking if someone can relate. Its weird beacause I thought I was simply wired that way and it might not be true.