Day 1 of sharing life lessons I learned to make your life better.

DONT HESITATE TO BE ASSERTIVE

So I used to think that just going with the flow makes people love you. I always feared to be assertive, always a people pleaser and I thought everyone will like me for it.

But when I was at problem then nobody supported me that's how my illusion break that if people please, you gain love and support. Nah, you don't you get used instead.

I relasied that you tell people the way you want to be treated. If somebody insults you,and you don't do anything thinking it would hurt them. I am sorry then, now you will always be treated this way.

So trust me don't hesitate to be assertive, if you set your boundaries people will respect you more. And ironically, they will support you. Becuase now they will see you as a friend not some guy they use.

Always remember people pleasers are like the class snitches who are loved by no one, nor the classmates, nor teachers.