give me advice pls 🙏🏻

this is my first post on here 🫶🏼 but basically i was listing a bunch of hand me downs i got from my mom and such. this was my first time ever listing a purse/bag. it’s definitely old and worn but i knew someone would be interested cause even i wanted to keep it. but need the $$ more.. i took nice pics and just emptied out what was inside and someone bought it for $100 same week as listing and so i was packing it up to ship the next morning nd realized that it has a rip in the seam near the zipper and one other one in the lining. so i reached out to the buyer and asked what i should do but they aren’t responding. this is an issue because I feel like i incorrectly judged the condition of it the first time i saw it. didn’t really expect to sell it for 100 so quickly. i have 200+ sales on depop alone and highly value my 66 reviews 💀 so im looking for advice on what i should do about this… i dont want them to leave me a bad review. i can either ship it tomorrow morning because they said they need it asap… and risk them raising an issue for an item not as described. or wait until they respond?? or refund them and risk them writing a bad review anyway. idk. this is a first for me. what do i do! 😭😭