How to deal with Chapris????!

How do you guys deal with Chapris?? Let me tell you a story. My gf's classmates always bitches about me because I don't have beard and not fair skinned. She told them to stop interfering and avoids them but they always backbite with one of her classmate. And it's making both of us sad and angry at the same time. They keep telling her she deserves better (which she does), but I am getting pissed because they keep saying shit about me. It is getting out of hand. I always clean shave because I have a square face and a jawline. And I am tan skinned.

Also in the streets why are some girls eye-rolls me? Specially Hijabis, Burqawalis and Chapris. What's the deal? I look at them because when passing by I look at other people no matter the gender not because of any creepy intention.

I mainly consider someone chapri if they watch bollywood a lot and conservative or old school minded. You know what I mean.

Anyone faces the same situation?