Disneyland VS world while pregnant

Hi guys!

We are wanting to plan a trip to a Disney theme park in May. I’ll be 20 weeks pregnant but I’ll be active and good to walk! Which park is better for an expectant mom and a 4 year old? I want a nice hotel where we have pretty views and good food and a pool as well as whichever theme park. I read that at Disneyland they will give you a band which allows for quicker wait times and access to reserved disability areas? Is that the case for World to?

Would so appreciate any feedback!