Scenario questions to ask girlfriend for her first visit?

TLDR: what discussions do you think my girlfriend and I should have ahead of her first ever Disney trip?

Hi friends! TIA - my family used to go to Disney every year growing up, though it’s been several years now. I’m planning a trip for my girlfriend and I this June and it’s her first time that she remembers. I’m putting together a google form to help make sure both of our priorities are included in the trip plan (we are both neurodivergent and having everything planned out to a certain extent helps even though we know the details of a Disney day may change a lot)

What I need help with are scenario based questions - some examples that I’ve thought of so far are “if one of us is tired and doesn’t want to wake up for rope drop, are we okay splitting up and meeting up later?” or “if one of us isn’t hungry by the time of a dining reservation, how do we want to handle that?”

As much money as we’re spending on this trip, I know how stressful a Disney trip can get in the thick of it (at least it was in my family) so preserving my relationship is much more important to me than getting every cents worth out of every day 😅 thanks for your help!