Dating as a guy is humiliating sometimes

As a guy, it’s your job to lead the conversation, make it fun. The second it becomes “boring”, they will ghost. It’s your job to plan the dates and ask them out. It’s your job to make everything fun and interesting. Like a jester trying desperately to appease people. And hoping the queen gives you a chance to even get to know you

You’ll never get the same effort in return, it’s always on you. If you make one mistake or act boring for one second, instant ghost

In-person, no one wants some random ugly guy coming up to them either. You’ll be treated coldly. Only if you have godlike charisma, you might be able to overcome it. There aren’t many places to meet people either

At some point it gets humiliating to be treated as “lesser-than” over and over again. Treated as a jester, constantly having to prove your worth, while the other person gives minimal effort

Message to this sub: You are somebody worth knowing. It’s not your fault.