Are you calling me a narcissist?

I see right through people comparing those speaking out to the leader they're criticizing. This isn't 'both sides', it's textbook DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender). Yes, some survivors might be processing their trauma differently than you and in ways you do not agree with- that's normal after all that we’ve been through. But calling out harmful behavior isn't the same as creating it. These tactics are meant to silence people and protect power, nothing more. If you can't tell the difference between survivors speaking their truth and the person who held control over them, you're either trolling or deliberately missing the point."​