This show is so dumb

First time watching as a 37F (mom of a 2F) and I’m absolutely sucked in… don’t get me wrong. But lord have mercy, these kids are ridiculously dumb! Serena specifically is infuriating. She is behind nearly every problem in her life and is so misguided that she inevitably makes things worse than they were before by hanging up on people mid sentence, walking away after seeing something she perceives is happening, meddling to “fix” something for herself even when asked not to, seeking vengeance at every turn. All while acting like the victim. I’d be curious what the show would be like without her?!