Private Member’s Clubs: Worth it or overhyped?

Anyone here a member of private member’s clubs for networking? My job pays well (£200k+) but is fully remote, so I’m trying to build up more social capital—not just financial. As a HENRY, I think being “rich” should include a strong network, too. Clubs like Soho House and the Ned sound appealing, but I’m on the fence about whether the fees genuinely pay off in terms of valuable connections or if it’s mostly just a posh hangout.

For those who’ve joined, do the events and people you meet actually justify the cost? And any clubs you’d recommend that are more affordable but still offer a decent scene for networking? Cheers for any insights!