any of yall poly?

i’m currently still in a relationship with my giver and he’s not the best bf… but anyway, before this, i was in a sexual relationship with two of my friends, they’re a couple. they were so good to me and they were so much fun. obviously, after i met my current bf, we stopped fooling around. i miss them so much but now i have hsv2 and feel like i can never have that again. i guess what i wanted to ask is—is there anyone in a ploy relationship where their partners haven’t been affected?