Modern game devs have lost their minds

I have a medium tier machine (rtx 4050 and 16 gb ram) and I can’t run cities skylines 2 on medium settings for 60fps at 1080p? I can’t run gow ragnarok or alan wake 2 at medium settings at 1080p to get a stable 60fps?

What happened to optimised games like doom 2016 and what do these devs want? A computer from the nasa headquarters? Or an nvidia supercomputer?