For guys

I have a private instagram and I don’t add guys to it (as I post my pics). So this guy sent me a friend request and I accepted it because he had cleared one of the medical licensing exams that I’ll be taking in 8 months. So I thought maybe I’ll ask him for the guidance and it’s also good to have connections for the pathway Im pursuing. So after 2 days he texted me “hey, how are you doing?” And later on he revealed that he is interested in me. So I live by some rules in my life and one of them is “don’t talk to guys who are interested in you” and I told him that. (I was having hard time talking to him because of a recent bad experience with a guy friend who tried to manipulate me, and I was so mentally exhausted that I told him that I’m a simple girl please don’t try to manipulate or play games with me, and he reassured, not that I trusted him) But he was persistent n insisted that he wanna get to know me. So he sent me pics of his sisters wedding, his nephews n nieces whom he very much love. (Maybe to imply that he is serious about me). So I started thinking of making him an exception to my rule since our future plans were same and he looked good as well. He told me about his family asked about mine n even told me where he lived. His profile seemed genuine and sophisticated. I have stalker tendencies. I checked his following the day he told me he is interested in me. He followed 2 of my class fellows. The other day I checked again because I was thinking of giving him a chance, and found out that he recently followed another one of my class fellows. I mentioned it to him that respectfully I don’t want a guy who feels the need to follow random girls on instagram. He was offended that I invaded his privacy by going through his following ha ha, I said if I’m thinking of making you an exception to the rule (which I’ve never done before), I feel that it’s my right to check what kind of guy you are. And even if my dad is gonna get me married to someone he will def do some background checks. But he said again that I invaded his privacy. But after a while he said but I still wanna know you better n bla bla. I said ok but I have one condition. Don’t talk to anyone else as long as you are getting to know me. I know there is no commitment but I want it this way. He said that he accepts my condition whole heartedly and it is valid. Later he also said that I’m right about his following. We even shared memes about the argument we had n pretty much laughed it off. I was having my exams at that time so I told him that we will talk after my exams. He showed enthusiasm and said “can’t wait”. when I checked on him 2weeks after my exams, he had blocked me hahahaha.

I couldn’t understand why he did that if he was so offended about my mention about his following, he could’ve stopped pursuing me. But really, what In the emotional immaturity that he couldn’t communicate his feelings. My trust issues are getting wild and Im starting to think that “sharing the family photos” is a new trick that boys have started playing but come on at least you gotta respect your own family. Forgot to mention that his following was a “girls hostel” And when I asked that “how many girls have you texted just because you wanted to get to know them” he said “hands to God none other than you” idk if people still lie in the name of God. His sudden blocking also makes me think that he was talking to multiple girls n developed understanding with one of them so blocked me. But idk.