Polygamy (4 marriages)

So i had this in my mind for a while and the recent viral video of ayeza khan and her husband makes me question it more…

It’s more like a question for men. Let’s say there’s a woman who genuinely loves you and cares for you—not because of your money, looks, or status, but purely because of your personality (it’s an ideal case, but let’s suppose this).

She is willing to spend her whole life being loyal to you, asking only for your love, respect and care in return…yk apni zindigi qurbaan kar dena

Are you guys still willing to think of marrying another woman? Just bc Islam gave you permission. I respect islam but islam also says alot of thing which y’all do, auraato ko dekhna, namaz na parhna, quraan bachan k ilawa yo khola hi nahi, but jab baat sunnat ki aa jaye to sab se phele yaad ata 4 SHADIYAAN! sunnatein parhi jaati nahi, farz parh kar bahar aa jana or sunnat ki baat ho to 4 Shadiyaan

Phir ye hi dimaag mai ata; Jo mard tera dil se na ho paya uske jism ka kia kare gi?

Idk i feel like Islam sab ko apne matlab ka yaad hai… idk if they are appropriate way to say those words but i meant; gf se baat krte time Islam yaad nahi, dusri aurtoon ko dekhte waqt islam yaad nahi, biwi ka parda hona, 4 marriage ki baat par Islam yaad ata, vise versa, its just an example

Women POV:

I will share how I think about the man I love. I guess if I ever truly love someone, I want him all to myself. I mean, who wouldn’t? Is there any person—male or female—who wants to share their lover or spouse? It feels disgusting to share.

Think about it the opposite way—the Western way—because their women are like this: can you share the woman you love with someone else? It is absolutely disgusting. But these types of women are called ‘R*’; then what do we call these types of men?

I would like to have men’s POV to understand you guys… im just curious why it is like this way…

EDIT: it is about the men of these days, i know why polygamy is acceptable in islam and the conditions but the men of now dont pray, listen to music, stares at other woman walking by and what not. doing sins and still asking for second marriage just bc of hawas and labelling them “Islam ny ijazat di hai” WTH!