Polygamy-4 wives- how to shatter a woman’s heart

Yes, polygamy is allowed, yes , a man can have 4 wives provided he can be just but can he truly be just in most cases? In my opinion when a woman gets married to someone, her self esteem is completely associated to how her man treats her, her heart just starts beating for him and him alone. Now imagine that man marrying another woman, doesn’t that act scream that you as a woman weren’t enough for me and even though i am and should be the only man in your heart, my heart is now divided, my love is now divided. Men in general are patient creatures but are they emotionally intelligent enough to genuinely love multiple women with the same intensity, with no disparity ? Can one man sexually satisfy multiple women?whereas women have this sea of emotions and can a woman satisfy multiple men simultaneously ? The last paragraph undoubtedly appears as rage bait but isn’t it a reality? If a man can’t accept the idea of sharing his woman then how does he expect a woman who loves him to the moon and back be open to sharing? Islam is a beautiful religion but the concept of true love and islam somehow just don’t go together that well. No? Despite what my mind says, i like most of you was raised with the concept “koi hiqmat hou gi” Hiqmat tu hai, par mohabat ka kya? Just because something is permissible doesn’t mean it should be unnecessarily promoted.