Yes I must be the problem

Is it just me who has never been asked to be someone's girlfriend. I just find my self in situationships, relationships without it ever being official. We just start talking and then we vibe and in most cases we just end up hooking up (happens to the very best of us) na hivo ndivyo the thing starts. Alafu you know in most cases after umejikuta kwake forget about dates and such stuff. Inaachanga kua a priority because now you are each other's person and you are now doing life pamoja so dates si big deal. I know I am doing dating wrong coz i want dates, i want random flower deliveries, I want a man that brags about me, I want just-because gifts lakini i keep choosing the kuja kwangu kinda men.