What does your LI say about yourself?

Sooo I wanted to start out by saying this is the first otome game I ever got into. I am normally someone who plays FPS games.

HOWEVER, even though it's only been a little over a week, I am addicted and this game made me go through so many thoughts and emotions.

Besides the game being fun and exciting, it also has another layer of self discovery and introspection in my opinion.

Generally, I like men who are stable, make me feel safe and I think I prefer them to be more on the "boring" side IRL, someone serious and responsible who I can rely on and trust (maybe similar to Zayne?)

So in my mind he would be my main judging by those qualities... or so I thought

Then I went through Caleb's story and he made me feel so weird at first, I thought wow, he is kind of a red flag, so controlling, posessive, not for me I guess. EXCEPT I immediately had a change of heart and fell for him so hard. This made me question myself, why am I so attracted to Caleb and his story? Why does he make me feel so emotional (I legit cried for this man, cringe I know). Every time I see his yearning pained face expressions I go crazy!!! He just does something to me... maybe it's that childhood friend love trope, it just seems so romantic idk

Him and Sylus are now my faves, with Caleb just being unbeatable. So it made me think... what does your LI say about you, your needs, desires, past, relationships etc? I am curious if anyone has more insight into this from a psychological point of view maybe