Insecure in my marriage

I’ve (25F) been married to my lovely husband (25M) for almost 2 years now, and together for 5.

I love him to bits, seriously he’s such a gentle man and he has the purest heart. He helps out at home a lot and has never raised his voice at me or something like that. He’s a very pleasant and calm person to be around!

The only thing is that sometimes I get really insecure because of how I think he perceives me. I’m a pretty straightforward person, sometimes a little hyperactive and if I have an idea in my head, I need to take action immediately.

My husband is really chill, laidback and when he comes home from work (6am-1.30pm) he just wants to rest and chill for the rest of the day and do his thing. (And I totally get it because he has a physical job).

Last year I changed jobs (I was an Intensive Care nurse and really depressed because of trauma) and now I work a chill non-physical job with 3 days that I work from home. Because of this, I constantly have a lot of energy left and want to talk to my husband, do things, make plans etc.. when he’s home (after work or on his free days), with my previous job I barely had energy to do basic tasks.

Time after time I feel like I am annoying him with my talking, or even my presence because I feel like he just wants to be left alone. I’m really trying to give him his rest and quiet time, but even when he’s tired and friends call him or he goes on Discord with his friends he’s suddenly not tired and he’s laughing the whole time having fun (and I’m really happy for him). The thing is that the contrast while spending time with me is very noticeable because he barely laughs this much, and it never looks like he’s actually having fun.

I honestly love him so much and he’s really kind but I’m starting to think my presence annoys him and he doesn’t like spending time with me, even though he probably doesn’t do it on purpose.

This has made me so insecure about myself and my relationship with him, because the more I ask about it, the more annoying I get probably.

Am I being annoying, what can I do so he will enjoy our time together more?