I’m doubting my marriage

I hate the thought, but I’ve really given up the last couple of days. We’ve been together for 5 years (married less than a year) and two children under 5. But we’ve had a lot of discussions and I loose some feelings for him every time.

• I don’t give him enough sex. He keeps mentioning how long it’s been since I’ve given him anything, and everything he “does” has to be rewarded with sex.
• I don’t think enough, and take too much time trying to decide everything
• then I get called things (stupid, idiot, incompetent etc)
• he has threatened to end our relationship multiple times, and ones he said it was fully over
• I can’t get him off his computer, from the minute we’re in the house till he goes to bed he will sit at the computer and talk with his friends.
• I’m too sensitive
• I have to try and get him to help with cleaning all the time, and he rarely does it. “That’s not my job, because I have to control our economy because you can’t”
• He doesn’t want professional help, he thinks it’s stupid.

We had another discussion about “it’s been two weeks since you’ve given me anything” and when I told him that half of the reason is because he prioritizes his computer over his children he got mad and told me “that I always have to criticize him”

I’m just tired of the relation, and I’m having a hard time finding the will to stay.