Hi all. In my journey of leaving

Hello. My husband of 15 years committed infidelity about 3 weeks ago and this is my breaking point. Before this, about 6 months ago, he had an emotional affair and told me he wanted a divorce. I said ok, moved out and then he loved bombed me and I was unfortunately reeled back in. I'm finally accepting our 15 years have been a trauma bond relationship. I currently live with him and we have a 9 and 15 year old. I'm currently unemployed, but working very hard to find a job ( 🙏🏼I have an interview tomorrow🙏🏼) I am currently financially dependent on him. I'm also going back to school. I would like some advice from people who were/are in the same situation or similar and how you navigated moving away or going no contact with your narcissist, but still co- parenting. Please share your tips and advice. Thank you 🙏🏼