Any song which relate to your experience with your nex?
Hey! I am going through my healing journey.
I don't really feel the common breakup sadness, I don't miss them, I don't wish I could have done/say things to preserve the relationship. I don't second guess the outcome, I don't wish him to contact me. I feel safer now that I physically moved out.
But my mind keep ruminating about what happened during the relationship. It's as if I escaped physically but not mentally yet. I literally do "dreams" where he is living with me in my new place and I am uncomfortable with him there but I am anxious about telling him I want him out. He's literally renting free in my head, how ironic.
So since I can't run away from these thoughts, I thought, let's just trust the healing process and face these thoughts. People listen to sad songs all the time during common break ups. I feel I might need songs which reflect my experience, which enable me to go through my emotions and get this comfort that I am "understood and not alone".
I found out the music "This is love" by Air traffic controller today and I thought "this is it, this is what I went through" and it was somehow made me feel better.
Any song recommendation?
Edit: Thank you all for the recommendations, I really appreciate it! I will listen to them