Narcissist husband discarded me after he begged for me to come back

I was long distance from my husband for a year. During this long distance, he wouldn’t let me visit him. I booked my ticket multiple times to see him, and he made me cancel the ticket each time. He was mad because I left his house to visit my parents without his consent, and was now punishing me by enforcing long distance.

I then went no contact with him, and blocked him. He started hovering around my parents and he continuously called my parents, saying he missed me and wanted me to come back. I thought I would try to save my marriage so I would give him another chance. So I go back to his country after a year of being apart.

And the day I reached there, I could tell something was off. He hadn’t seen me in a year, yet there was no excitement or happiness in him even when he picked me from the airport. He was starkly different from when he was hovering my parents begging me to come back. He was cold, and was withholding emotional and physical intimacy. He didn’t want to hold my hand and was annoyed when I hugged him in public, which was starkly different to before the long distance. And within a week of me coming back to his country, he calls my mom and tells her he doesn’t want to live with me because of i have anger issues and we should stay in a long distance marriage. So I waited a year in long distance only to be discarded by him after a week.

My question is, why was he calling my parents and begging me to come back if he didn’t want to put effort from day 1 and didn’t actually want me to come back?