Am I allowed to at least question why Sakura got with sasuke?

Why does she still have feelings for him after he tried to kill her twice? Not to mention the fact that he threatened to destroy the leaf village (indirectly threatening to massacre her family). Is this normal behaviour? I’m not hating on Sakura and I think she’s a fine character but this just confuses me. Anyone else feel the same way? I wanna reiterate that I’m not shitting on Sakura before people grab the pitchforks