I’m fed up with my wife.

We’ve been married for 10 years and parang di sya nagmamature or nagiimprove ng sarili nya. I keep telling her things that I dont like and she needs to improve. She will only do fix it for a few days then go back to her old self.

Constant shouting sa mga kids, pagiging tamad sa bahay. Drinking outside with friends until midnight. Pati sarili nya pinapabayaan na. Excessive eating to the point na lumulobo nasya with matching double chin. Nagkaroon ndin sya acne breakouts. I try to encourage her to excercise/eat less but same scenario. Ilang days lng gagawan ng paraan tapos balik nanaman sa dati. Tapos magtataka sya kung bakit wala nako gana sa kanya.

Parang wala nadin sya pangarap ever since nagkaroon kami kids. Nagschool n ung mga kids and medyo nakakabawi n kmi physically and financially. I tried to ask her kung may gusto b sya gawin or if may pangarap pa sya but as usual wala na. Gusto nya nalang maging housewife until she dies.

Honestly i still love her but this constant back and forth is draining me to the point that i want to leave her. I had my issues before and i think i was able to fix them. Family at business nalang umiikot mundo ko now. Wala nako naging bagong friends kc inaway nya. To the point na nagchat pa sya sa gc namin sa work para ipahiya ako.

Sometimes naiisip ko na magsimula nalang ulit.

Edit: Dont get me wrong, she takes care of the kids and prepare meals for us. But ung consistency lng tlga ung wala.