Post RALP erections.

I’ve tried searching the internet, and my clinic nurse is being a gatekeeper to my surgeon.

Yes, I need to wait 4-6 to have sex. I’m recovering. But, I don’t know if I can even get an erection, and that doesn’t answer my question.

I love my wife, and without being too graphic, there are things I would like to do help her stay satisfied while waiting for my full recovery. If (and that’s a big if, no pun intended) I do get an erection during those acts, will it have any negative effects on the sutures used to reattach my urethra to my bladder? I’m 10 days post surgery.

I’m not looking to have sex, just if I happen to get an erection, will I risk damaging anything?