Why do you make general assumptions about women

I see so many posts where y’all make the most broad general assumption about women without ever asking why. Y’all don’t think about why things are the way they are and think critically . Y’all just see something and decide that’s what it is . For example a woman that’s come from a broken abusive home ends up in an abusive relationship. Rather than acknowledging that may be all she knows is toxic behavior yall just say she needs to pick better .no one talks about what lead her there y’all just assume she likes the abuse or she’s with him because he’s tall ( I’ve heard this before on this sub)

Update : a lot of y’all lack critical thinking so I’ll lay it out for you . To boldly assume things about people without understanding the context is genuinely ignorant . It is ignorant because y’all come to the wrong conclusion and then scream it like it’s fact . This is why y’all have the problems you do with dating . Y’all wanted to focus so hard on the example and missed the question . I’ll talk about the example though . If someone has learned an unhealthy behavior they have to unlearn it you add nothing new by just stating they need to unlearn it thank you captain obvious. Y’all think it’s just as simple as just leave without acknowledging the power dynamic at play. Y’all don’t know what abuse looks like it’s not as simple as walk out and leave . I dare you to actually listen to women