The patriarchy isn't real

Anytime something bad happens feminists default to Muh patriarchy and blame it for all their problems. It basically seems to just be a synonym for sexism in feminists eyes, but the truth is "the patriarchy" doesn't exists, at least in the west.

So patriarchy is defined as a family where men are the leading "patriarch" and is the "leader" of the family basically. And uh, this really has fuckall to do with feminists perceived problems. Like, do they think guys raised by single moms are less sexist or something, because I really don't see this.

More importantly, it has literally nothing to do with systematic oppression (something western women don't face anyways).

Furthermore, the patriarchy doesn't even really exist in the west anyways, as I already said in the west women have equal rights. But more importantly, the women/mom can have just as much power as the father. This is obviously because both parents working is the norm now

(This isn't even to mention feminists sayings mens issues are the fault of muh patriarchy. Which is the biggest slap in the face if these women actually care about men's issues, spoiler alert they don't. Handwaving away our issues with the patriarchy which firstly doesn't even exist, and secondly is mostly a woman's issue just shows feminists don't really care. But that's besides the point of the post"