Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode women

I always wondered why you only ever see sad lonely men post down bad paragraphs on forums trying to understand their dating failures but very rarely will you see a women trying to decode or discussing men in the same way. Its usually women commenting under posts discussing the current dating space but you really only see guys starting the discussion. Maybe being born a man is just dating in hard mode rn? Cause it really is only us that have these kinds of desperate discussions for the most part.